Thursday, April 25, 2024

THE WAY I LOVED YOU




The way I loved You 

Soo I know there are lots of problems between us whether it's caste whether it's distance whether it's mentality because we think differently.

 Why do u wanna judge yourself or your worth by listening what others telling to u ?? Either proof them wrong or just Don’t take it to your brain and heart You are unique. Everyone is having flaws rather to think it as scar make it beautiful embrace yourself show who you are what you can do not to others but to self .

There are lots of people who do cares for you, rather thinking of them if u choose thinking about people who hurt or left u in misery then u will get pain disappointment suffering. Every person has a past so what accept it and walk to the future which is always a mystery but be in present put all your efforts in present. Be happy with what u have now if u keep wishing about things which are not yours then it will create unstability. 

Life is beautiful only when u will able to live in present oh come no need to think about future but one should have a structure about means I want this I want that only once just think about it work now and get them and most important is to be happy. Happy with yourself happy with people u have happy with work u do There is always a place for betterment, we are like sculptor we got hands we got legs we got brain we got heart with this we can make life easier and happier we can change ourself to be better or to be better for our close ones. 

 I want you to be yourself to know your worth Describe yourself in your own terms why to take other people's opinion It's not like I don't accept you I dooo. But sometimes something crazy come up to my mind and I start saying those things to u. That time I just want support from u assurance love from u. That's it I do love you alot More than one can ever imagine Cause I do. 

 No matter what happens in life I will always be there for you and with you Forever No matter how much things hurts I will always be there with your side I will protect you I will care you I will there for u in your darkness IN every moment .

Seriously I know you are working there are lots of things you are going through you too I understand And keep that in mind I will wait for you forever You take your time build your career support yourself support your parents but in the end plzz come to me plzz don't forget that I'm always here for u I know that you will do the best to provide best and I will do the same thing to provide us the best He means the world to me, more than words can express.


 From the moment I met him, I knew there was something special about him, something that drew me in and made me feel whole. He's not just a partner to me; he's my confidant, my rock, my everything. I love him to the moon and back, and I will always be there for him, no matter what. In a world where people come and go, he's the one constant in my life, the one person I can always rely on. I want him to know that he can always count on me, that I will always be there to hold him tight and protect him from whatever life throws our way. I want him to know that he can take refuge in me, that I will always be his safe haven in a stormy sea. And I want him to know that I will always protect, love, care for, and respect him with all my heart. Sure, I'll annoy him at times, we all do, but I also want him to know that I'll always be there to support him, especially during his tough days. 

And I understand that there will be times when I'll need his extra love and patience, when my mood swings might be more pronounced. But through it all, I want him to know that my love for him will never waver. Marriage isn't the be-all and end-all for me. What matters most is that we're together, under the same roof, making our dreams come true. Whether we're officially married or not doesn't change how I feel about him. I just want to spend the rest of my life with him, building a future together, creating memories, and facing whatever challenges come our way, hand in hand. He's not just my partner; he's my best friend, my soulmate, the one person who truly understands me. And I will cherish him for as long as I live, loving him with every fiber of my being, till the end of time. And when I say "he" here, I mean you. You're the one I'm talking about, the one who means everything to me.



 Hey, I hope you know that it's perfectly okay if we don't talk for a few days. I truly believe that we'll reconnect soon, and that assurance brings me a sense of peace. But there are moments, unexpected and sudden, when I find myself consumed by strange thoughts. It's during those times that I crave your presence, your comforting words, to anchor me and envelop me in a sense of warmth and safety, even though we may be miles apart. Your words have this incredible power to make me feel like I'm in your arms, protected and cherished. I want you to understand that even though we're not physically together, your words have a way of reaching into my heart and soothing my soul.


 Sometimes, life gets hectic, and our conversations may become less frequent, but please know that my love for you remains unwavering. No matter what happens, no matter where life takes us, I will always love you. In those moments of silence, when doubts or insecurities creep in, I find solace in the memories we've created together, in the bond that we share. Your presence in my life has brought me more joy and happiness than I ever thought possible. You've been my rock, my anchor, guiding me through the rough seas of life with your unwavering support and love. 


I know that sometimes I may seem distant or preoccupied, but please know that you are always on my mind, in my thoughts, and in my heart. Every word you speak, every message you send, is like a lifeline, pulling me back to shore and reminding me of the incredible love we share. And even though we may face challenges or obstacles along the way, I want you to know that I am committed to us, to our relationship, and to loving you with all that I am. No matter what trials we encounter, no matter what hardships we face, my love for you will remain steadfast and true. So, my dear, if there are days when we don't talk as much as we used to, please remember that it's not a reflection of my love for you.


 It's simply a reminder that life can sometimes get in the way, but through it all, you can count on me to be here, loving you always, no matter what happens. And just as I find comfort in your presence and your words, I want you to know that it's okay if you need space too. If there are moments when you feel overwhelmed or distant, remember that I'm here, holding space for you, ready to offer you the same love and support that you've always shown me. Our relationship is built on mutual understanding and respect, and that means respecting each other's need for space and time apart. But no matter how far apart we may be, know that my love for you remains constant and unwavering. So, take all the time you need, my dear. Whether it's a day, a week, or longer, just know that I'll be here, waiting for you with open arms and an open heart. Because our love is strong enough to withstand any distance or time apart, and I will always be here, loving you, no matter what. In response to what you said yesterday about us not being together in the future, I want to talk about it a bit more and let you know how I feel.


 The idea of us not being together down the road is pretty tough for me to wrap my head around. I mean, you've become such a big part of my life, you know? Your presence brings me so much happiness, and the thought of not having that in the future is hard to think about. Life can be unpredictable, and we both have our own dreams and plans to chase. It's possible that our paths might not line up perfectly, and that's something we've got to face. But even with that uncertainty, I want you to know that my love for you is as strong as ever. Every moment we've spent together, every laugh, every hug—it's all made a big impact on me. You've been there for me in good times and bad, and that means everything to me. So, when you talk about the future, I get it. It's a bit scary to think about. But here's what I believe: no matter what happens, our love is something special. It's strong enough to get us through whatever life throws our way. So, let's cherish the time we have together and see where life takes us. And no matter what the future holds, just know that you'll always have a special place in my heart. 


If we don't end up being together in the future, it's going to be tough, no doubt about it. I mean, imagining a life without you by my side is a pretty scary thought. You've become such a big part of my world, and the idea of not having you in it is hard to swallow. But hey, life is full of twists and turns, right? Sometimes things don't work out the way we hoped or planned, and that's just the reality of it. It doesn't mean that what we had wasn't special or meaningful—it just means that life had different plans for us. If we do end up going our separate ways, I want you to know that I'll always treasure the time we spent together. The memories we made, the laughs we shared, the love we felt—it's all going to be a part of me forever. And who knows? Maybe our paths will cross again someday, in ways we never expected. Or maybe we'll both find happiness and fulfillment in other ways, with other people. Whatever the future holds, I want you to know that I'll always be grateful for the love we shared and the impact you've had on my life. So, if we don't end up being together in the future, I'll be okay. It'll hurt, for sure, but I'll find a way to move forward. And I hope you do too. Because at the end of the day, all I want is for you to be happy, whether that's with me or without me. 



But let me tell you something—I can't imagine my life without you in it. The thought of being with someone else just doesn't feel right. You've become such an essential part of who I am, and the idea of not having you by my side is almost unbearable. So, believe me when I say that I'm going to do everything in my power to make sure we end up together. I refuse to let anything stand in the way of our love. Sure, we may annoy each other sometimes (let's be real, it's bound to happen), but that's all part of the deal, right? And through it all, my love for you will only grow stronger with each passing day. I'm not giving up on us, not now, not ever. I'm determined to find a way for us to be together, to annoy each other endlessly, and to love each other fiercely for the rest of our days. Because when you find someone as special as you, someone who makes your heart feel like it's found its home, you hold onto them with everything you've got. And that's exactly what I plan to do. 


Of course, I can't deny that you've made a mistake by choosing me. I come with my fair share of flaws. I'm not always the easiest person to love, and I have a tendency to be hard to forget. I love with all my heart, and sometimes that means I love too fiercely, too intensely. I'll admit, I can be a handful at times, and I'm sure I'll break you down every now and then. But here's the thing: I'll also make you feel alive in ways you never thought possible. I'll fill your life with passion, excitement, and love that knows no bounds. Yes, I may have my rough edges, but I promise you, underneath it all, there's a heart that beats for you and you alone. So, while I may not be the easiest choice, and while I may come with my fair share of challenges, I believe that together, we can overcome anything. Because at the end of the day, what we have is worth fighting for. And I'm willing to fight tooth and nail to make sure we end up together, despite the odds stacked against us. 


How could you even entertain the thought of me leaving you? Seriously, think about it. I haven't even laid a finger on you, haven't pressed my lips against yours, haven't left a single mark on your skin. So, why in the world would I walk away now? It just doesn't add up. The truth is, I'm here to stay. I'm not going anywhere, not now, not ever. You've become such a big part of my life, and the idea of not having you in it is just unfathomable. I mean, sure, we may drive each other crazy sometimes, but that's all part of the fun, right? And let's talk about love for a moment. Yeah, we're definitely going to make lots of it, in more ways than one. But beyond the physical stuff, I'm talking about the kind of love that runs deep, that stands the test of time. The kind of love that keeps us coming back to each other, no matter what life throws our way. So, rest assured, my dear. I'm not going anywhere. You're stuck with me, whether you like it or not. And honestly, I wouldn't have it any other way. You're the one I want to annoy, to disturb, to love with all my heart. And together, we'll create a lifetime of memories that we'll cherish forever. 


About your safety, and it's something that I can't help but worry about when you're not with me. You see, when you don't let me know where you're going or when you'll be back, it leaves me feeling anxious and unsettled. It's not that I'm trying to control you or invade your privacy. It's just that I care about you deeply, and knowing that you're safe and sound is incredibly important to me. When you keep me in the loop about your plans, it helps ease my mind and allows me to focus on other things without constantly wondering where you are or if you're okay. I understand that you value your independence and that you may not always see the need to keep me updated on your whereabouts. But please understand that my concern comes from a place of love and genuine care for your well-being. In today's world, where anything can happen at any moment, it's more important than ever to look out for each other and to take precautions to ensure our safety. And part of that means communicating openly and honestly about our plans and whereabouts, especially when we're apart. So, please, don't see it as me trying to restrict your freedom or limit your autonomy. Instead, see it as me looking out for you, wanting nothing more than for you to return home safely each and every time you step out the door. I love you, and that's why I'm asking you to keep me in the loop about your plans. Not because I want to control you, but because I want to protect you and keep you safe. So, please, indulge me in this small request, and let's continue to look out for each other as we navigate this crazy world together.

Tuesday, February 27, 2024

Sometimes love hurts

I don't know why it hurts I just wanna be yours and is it crime to love you? I don't think so and even it is I will love you for my thousand lives. No matter how much it's hurts I will love you endlessly. How could I not your are so precious to me. All I want is to be with you is to cherish all the moments we are creating but I don't know why I'm being like this. But believe me I say everything to u whatever is coming up in my mind cause for me u are important. When I am asking things to you that means your opinions matters alot to me I don't even know why I am saying all this but I want to let you know about this. I really want you to be my everything and I believe that to but do you think or believe that u are my everything cause that's matter to me. I just want to spend the rest of my life with you. Is it wrong ?? Then why do people love just for now for a limited time ?? I made you my beginning my middle my end and it's true that I never loved anyone so seriously. My love for you is generating from core of my heart and I can't stop it. No matter how much I get hurts or no matter how much we fight or no matter how much the distance bet. Us is. I love you I love you the most. It's true. I'm trying so freaking hard for us u can't even imagine. This distance between us I don't like it I want to be with you not for some days months or year but foreve. Everyday I'm trying my best to minimize this dist everyday I'm walking through this road just to be with you. Sometimes the road is smooth sometimes it's rough sometimes I'm getting shade and sometimes it's bare land but still I am walking doing my things all I should just to reach you. Sometimes I just want to leave everything u mummy bholebaba studies everyone and go somewhere where I will be free total free but then I realize no it won't be good for anyone why do I need to leave. Leaving is sign of weakness maybe sometimes leaving is best one can do just to maintain their own well-being but I can't cause for me you and my parents are important. my career is important too cause it's just not my career rather lakhs of people's life is attached from it. I may fail for 100 times but believe me I will never lose hope I will stand stronger learning from my mistakes and my comeback will be so so so so incredible that past present and future will remember me for the way I'm. I'm not joking I'm serious. I'm dreaming everyday and working for it every single sec.

Saturday, November 18, 2023

REMOVING PEOPLE FROM LIFE

HEY GUYS I HOPE YOU ALL ARE DOING GREAT. SO today I want to talk about removing people from our life like what is that why you are doing it how to do it what are the consequences you or the other one can face. So without wasting our time let's indulge into the topic. [DISCLAIMER:- As you all know EVERYONE HAS DIFFERENT OPINIONSONS AND MAYBE SOME WILL LIKE IT SOME WILL CRITICISE IT SO u might not like my point of views and that’s totally fine but that doesn’t mean that I'm wrong] ACTUALLY I'm writing on this topic cause today I see some quotes in someone's dp and it's written as "GOD remove people cause he heard conversations that u didn't hear" Somewhere in me I felt like it's for me o like yeah it's indicating me Why ?? Here is a whole story and I don't wanna share it here and it was done by one of my closest friend sorry it doesn't suits here someone special yeah it pretty appropriate. SO WHAT IS ACTUALLY REMOVING PEOPLE FROM LIFE MEANS?? Maybe it's removing him forever or it might means that u aren't ready for it. Fine it's a rude behavior I understand but sometimes it's necessary for your own wellbeing. IS IT REALLY MEANS THAT YOU HATE THAT PERSON AND DON'T WANNA TALK TO THEM OR YOU REALLY DON'T GET THE CHEMISTRY BETWEEN BOTH OR JUST DON'T WANT TO HURT EACH OTHERS FEELINGS,SOMETIMES SOCIAL FAMILY SELF PROBLEMS HITS REASON CAN BE ANYTHING LOT OF THEM ARE NOT EVEN MENTIONED HERE. IT'S NOT ALWAYS THAT WHATEVER YOU ARE DOING JUST FOR YOU RATHER IT'S GOOD FOR BOTH. LET ME TELL YOU A STORY WHERE 2 PEOPLE FALL FOR EACH OTHER BUT THE GIRL DON'T WANTED TO CONTINUE ONE DAY A BOY TEXTED A GIRL SAYING HI how are you and all so this is how things started and after talking to 1 week she feel like yeah this boy has good sense of humor and personality and few days later she started liking him both continued talking after few weeks girl told to boy that she liked him and boy said no this is not possible and told he is having exam next week and blocked her. She thought Nothing rather waited for him and when his result came he texted her in that he passed the exam and unblocked her and said that he wouldn't had come if he had failed the exam she was pretty astonished to hear this after that talking continued and when girl was having her time boy was be like hey why are u ignoring me well she was not rather she was working on her and she do want time for her studies and thinks continued. But girl felt like everything is happening fast like bullet train cause boy was calling her wife (i don't know why??) Well she told him about this but boy replied that he had done it slow. Girl was feeling Nothing rather felt like she was with a young child who doesn't no how to build a relation. MAYBE ACC TO GUY SHE WAS EGOISTIC DOESN'T DESERVE HIS PRECIOUS TIME OR SHE WAS JUST DOING TIMEPASS [ONE SHOULDN'T THINK THESE TYPES OF THINGS IF YOU CAN'T SOLVE THE OTHER ONES PROBLEMS] AND ONE DAY HE ASKED SOMETHING HE SHOULDN'T ASK CONTINUOUSLY even when she told no to it after that she blocked him SO WHAT DO YOU THINK GUYS WHO WAS WRONG IT CAN HAPPEN WITH ANYONE BOY OR GIRL DOESN'T MATTER THOUGH ANYONE CAN SUFFER FROM THIS. Never ever come to an conclusion where you don't know about the other person situation and their intention if you still do then you don't deserve that person well I should not say this too cause I don't know the actual scenario One shouldn't judge other by their perspective of views cause it's not you who wear their shoes it's them only why they are doing it either wear it 1st and walk understand what's the actual cause and then comment or just walk in your own shoe without wasting your's and other's time

Wednesday, November 8, 2023

what's coming next

HELLO EVERYONE HOPE U ALL ARE DOING GREAT WELL I WAS SUPER BUSY lately. My exams are knocking and I'm not getting time to complete my blogs actually I had already started writing them 1. ARE U FEELING BORED ? 2. FALLING IN LOVE IS NOT EASY 3. REMOVING PEOPLE FROM LIFE I WILL TRY MY LEVEL BEST TO COMPLETE ALL THIS 3 IN THIS MONTH ACTUALLY alot of things happened good bad both maybe will share a glimpse in my upcoming blogs THANK YOU

Friday, September 8, 2023

Exam hack

Here are 7 shortcuts that will make the path to success significantly easier. ​ As you’d expect from me, they're all backed by robust science and psychology, and battle-tested by generations of real students. ​ Read them slow, act on them fast! ​

 1. Pull information out, don’t push it in ​ it’s worthy of repeating: making yourself recall information is a ridiculously effective way to build memory. ​ Testing yourself isn’t just for checking what you know: it’s also the absolute best way known to science to get stuff learned. ​ Smart students use the majority of their learning time on this “retrieval practice” strategy: flashcards, quiz questions, practice exam questions, scribbling it out from memory.

 ​2. If you’re spending more than 25% of your exam-prep / revision / review time re-reading, highlighting, or making notes, you’re doing it wrong. ​ This goes with the last point. It’s fine to start by reminding yourself of the course content, but move on ASAP. ​ Don’t wait till you “feel you know it” to start testing yourself, OK?


 ​3. Re-reading isn't effective, but can be improved by pre-testing: try answering some practice questions before you re-read the topic, or just dump whatever you can remember (however little) down on a blank sheet. ​ It’s like ploughing the fields of your memory to make the seeds of knowledge take root way more easily. ​

 4. Know when to zoom out and when to zoom in ​ Sometimes a topic is hard because we don’t understand the details. Focus intently on the vocab you don’t understand, or a specific action in a math(s) solution – isolate the individual problems and fix them. ​ Other times, it’s the big picture that’s the problem – create a visual map for the topic that lays out the big building blocks clearly, so you understand how the different details relate to the whole. ​


 5. Work shorter hours with deeper focus: if you’re religious about monotasking , you’ll be able to focus intently (hopefully on your “retrieval practice”!), and get a tonne of work done in a short space of time. ​ Far better to work intently and smartly for shorter hours than doing long hours of low-value work. ​ Enjoy all the extra free time 😊 ​


 6. Don’t say “I can’t”, say “I can’t YET”: More than anything else, I wish I’d known this one when I was a student. ​ I’d aced high school, but entrance exams are brutally hard . If I’m being honest, I was guilty of giving up, because I didn’t understand what we psychologists call “growth mindset”: the idea that our brains can literally grow and change and rewire to get better at things, with the right kind of practice. ​


 7. Harden yourself to the stresses of the exam: there are a million things that can go wrong on exam day... ​ ​ But start by forcing yourself to take high-stakes mock exams in stressful circumstances. Do it in a silent study room / library reading room. Time it. No notes. Even find a partner to mark it for you, and pre-commit to telling close friends / family what mark you get. Get used to operating under conditions of stress and pressure before the big day, and the big day will feel way easier by comparison. ​ OK, it’s crunch time... ​ ... what’s the one thing YOU want to do differently? ​ There may be lots of things you want to do – but pick one to start with, and put it to work the very next chance you get.






Wednesday, September 6, 2023

Summary of 1 percent Secret part 1

 The History of the Concept Highlight (yellow) - Page 10 "cumulative karma," where every small action has the potential to contribute to a more significant result in a future life or even the current one. Highlight (pink) - Page 10 the goal is not to make sweeping, drastic changes, but to constantly look for small ways to make processes more efficient. Highlight (blue) - Page 10 "winner fringe rule." Highlight (blue) - Page 10 suggests that in competitions of all kinds, from political elections to sports races, it is often a small advantage that determines the outcome. In other words, the difference between the winner and second place could be only 1%, but that small margin is enough to change the outcome of the competition and, in many cases, the lives of the people involved. Highlight (orange) - Page 11 It's a reminder that success and excellence don't always come from great actions, but more often from constantly striving to be a little better every day. Why is the 1% so powerful? Highlight (yellow) - Page 13 1% becomes a kind of "adaptability insurance", a mechanism that allows us to adjust our sails to navigate unknown seas. The goal is not to get it right once and for all, but rather to maintain a steady pace of incremental improvements that allow us to adapt to changing circumstances. Highlight (blue) - Page 13 This allows us to maintain a sense of progress and success, which in turn reinforces our self- efficacy and commitment to the ultimate goal. It's a virtuous circle that underpins self- discipline and long- term commitment, two critical components to any kind of sustainable success. Highlight (orange) - Page 13 1% improvement, we minimize friction by making the required action as small and manageable as possible. This increases the likelihood that we will take that action and thus establish a pattern of continuous improvement. Highlight (pink) - Page 14 The power of the 1% lies in its ability to generate significant cumulative effects through continuous and sustainable improvement, to adapt to complex and changing environments, to foster a psychology of success and self- discipline, to minimize friction and resistance to change, and to be applicable in an almost infinite variety of contexts and circumstances. It is a strategy that transforms the way we meet our challenges and goals, offering a practical and realistic approach to continuous improvement and long- term success. The Mathematics behind the 1% Highlight (blue) - Page 16 "asymptote", which in this context refers to a limit that is never reached but towards which the results tend. Here, the asymptote represents the ideal version of yourself: always out of reach but always closer with every 1% improvement. Highlight (yellow) - Page 17 doubling your effort doesn't necessarily double your results. But small increases in your efforts are often more sustainable and easier to maintain in the long run. Highlight (orange) - Page 17 They teach us that small actions have the power to add up over time, thanks to the phenomenon of compound interest. Demystifying the concept of "overnight success" Highlight (yellow) - Page 21 "overnight success", it is crucial to understand that behind that concept there are a large number of factors and processes that rarely show up on the public stage. Introduction to the Deming Cycle (Plan, Do, Check, Act) Highlight (pink) - Page 23 Continuous Improvement Cycle, also known as the Deming Cycle in honor of its creator, the statistician William Edwards Deming, Highlight (pink) - Page 23 four- stage cycle of Plan, Do, Check and Act (PDCA) offers a structured and repeatable approach to improvement in any area. Highlight (orange) - Page 24 Planning stage Highlight (orange) - Page 24 where ideas are conceptualized and developed. Highlight (blue) - Page 24 1% theory intertwines with the Planning phase, as it focuses on identifying small but powerful areas of improvement that can have a significant impact over time. Highlight (orange) - Page 24 Do phase. Highlight (orange) - Page 24 ideas and plans are put into practice. Highlight (yellow) - Page 24 Check phase is perhaps the most critical stage of the cycle. Highlight (pink) - Page 24 It is in this phase that data is collected, results are examined, and achievements are compared with the objectives established during the evaluation phase.Planning. Highlight (blue) - Page 25 Act stage. Highlight (blue) - Page 25 where an informed decision is made as to whether to continue with the current plan, make minor modifications, or completely revise the original strategy. Highlight (yellow) - Page 25 The Deming Cycle is a dynamic process and never stops. Each iteration of the cycle provides an opportunity to improve and optimize, always in search of excellence. Highlight (pink) - Page 25 Continuous Improvement Cycle or Deming Cycle, Highlight (pink) - Page 25 is a philosophical approach to life and continuous improvement. It is a way of thinking that encompasses careful planning, considered implementation, careful review, and informed adaptation. Highlight (orange) - Page 25 it teaches us that the search for excellence is a constant process, and that each cycle is a new opportunity to be better than we were before. How to apply the Continuous Improvement Cycle in your life Highlight (blue) - Page 27 The planning stage involves defining clear and achievable goals. Highlight (blue) - Page 27 Instead, each goal can be broken down into smaller, more manageable components. Highlight (orange) - Page 28 defined, the next step is to put these actions into practice. Highlight (yellow) - Page 28 After a set period, it is essential to review and evaluate progress. Highlight (yellow) - Page 28 1%, it's not about how much you've changed in absolute terms, but rather whether those small changes are adding up in a way that's bringing you closer to your overall goal. Highlight (orange) - Page 29 phase, the "Act" phase involves making adjustments to optimize the process. Highlight (pink) - Page 29 The key is to recognize that improvement is not a one- time event, but rather an ongoing process. The Continuous Improvement Cycle provides us with a tool to make this process more structured, measurable and, ultimately, more effective. Highlight (yellow) - Page 29 embrace the philosophy of small cumulative changes. It Highlight (yellow) - Page 29 encourages you to view your life as an optimizable environment where excellence is achieved not through isolated efforts, but through an unbroken series of small optimizations. Highlight (blue) - Page 30 Incorporating the Continuous Improvement Cycle into your personal life is an effective and sustainable approach that can bring significant value to your efforts to achieve lasting change. Breaking down each phase of the cycle Highlight (orange) - Page 31 possible. Setting SMART (Specific, Measurable, Achievable, Relevant, and Temporary) goals is a great way to do this. Strategic thinking also comes into play here; Highlight (pink) - Page 31 the time to map out the tasks needed and the time it will take to complete them. Highlight (orange) - Page 32 There also needs to be some adaptability and flexibility in our execution. Not everything will go as planned; that's almost a given. Highlight (blue) - Page 32 Having a rigid approach can lead to a lack of progress, while an adaptable approach will allow us to navigate through challenges without losing sight of our goals. Highlight (yellow) - Page 32 we stop our actions long enough to evaluate and analyze our results. It's like being a detective of our own life. Highlight (pink) - Page 32 at the data, look for patterns, comparing what we have achieved with what we planned. Highlight (yellow) - Page 32 "Act" phase, which takes the information and findings from the "Check" phase and uses them to make adjustments to the initial plan or execution of that plan. But this phase is not just about fixing bugs; it is also about optimizing and improving. Highlight (pink) - Page 32 The "Act" phase allows us to polish and refine our approach, based on real evidence and tangible results. Highlight (pink) - Page 33 cycle. It's not something we do once and then quit; it's an iterative process, and with each iteration, we get a little wiser, a little more effective, and, yes, a little closer to that magical 1% improvement we're looking for. Highlight (orange) - Page 33 As you move through the phases, you are building, layer by layer, towards a better version of yourself. It's a systematic way of ensuring that you're constantly progressing, constantly learning, and yes, constantly improving. Measurement and monitoring: The importance of key performance indicators (KPIs) Highlight (blue) - Page 35 adjusting. But one of the most crucial elements in this cycle is the one that focuses on "Measurement and monitoring: The importance of key performance indicators (KPIs)". Highlight (yellow) - Page 35 KPIs, are quantifiable metrics that allow evaluating the performance or success of an activity. Highlight (yellow) - Page 36 their ability to provide specific data, which is critical when looking to implement change Highlight (yellow) - Page 36 based on the 1% principle. Highlight (pink) - Page 36 it. KPIs must be carefully selected to ensure they align with strategic goals and objectives. Highlight (orange) - Page 37 key aspect of KPIs is their dynamic nature. They are not static; require regular review and adaptation. Highlight (blue) - Page 37 adjustments are required, which adds another layer of complexity to the already difficult task of measuring and monitoring. Highlight (yellow) - Page 37 measurement and monitoring through Key Performance Indicators (KPIs) are critical to any continuous improvement process, especially when the 1% principle is applied. Highlight (yellow) - Page 37 with a structure that not only makes improvement possible, but also makes it sustainable in the long term. What is a habit? Highlight (pink) - Page 40 A habit can be considered as a series of actions or thoughts that, once acquired, are carried out almost automatically and without the need for a conscious effort. Highlight (orange) - Page 40 the brain is optimizing resource management, freeing up cognitive capacity to focus on more demanding tasks. Highlight (orange) - Page 40 repetition. Unlike single actions, which can have a punctual impact, habits have the property of accumulating their effects. Highlight (blue) - Page 41 because the power of repetition and accumulation works in your favor. Habits that improve your performance, health, or any other area of your life by just 1% generate significant results Highlight (yellow) - Page 41 The "cue" is the trigger that sets the habit in motion. It can be a place, a time of day, a series of emotional events, or even specific people. The "routine" is the action you take in response to the cue, and the "reward" is the benefit you get from completing the routine. Highlight (pink) - Page 41 Habits are indicators of identity, of who you are or who you are in the process of becoming. Highlight (pink) - Page 42 It is a master key to unlocking awesome potential in almost every aspect of our lives. The Psychology of Habit Formation Highlight (orange) - Page 43 Habit formation is essentially an automation process. When we repeat an action enough, our brain starts taking shortcuts to conserve energy. Highlight (blue) - Page 43 habits are automated responses to specific cues or stimuli in our environment or in our own train of thought. Highlight (yellow) - Page 43 'Habit Loop'. This loop consists of three key components: the cue, the routine, and the reward. Highlight (pink) - Page 44 Each time a habit loop is completed, the neural connections related to that chain of events are strengthened in the brain. In essence, a pattern is being recorded in neural memory, making it more likely that the same loop will repeat itself in the future. Highlight (orange) - Page 44 Dopamine, a neurotransmitter associated with pleasure and reward, plays a key role in this mechanism. This neurotransmitter is released not only when we experience the reward, but also in anticipation of it, motivating us to take the action that will lead to the reward. Highlight (blue) - Page 45 "habit substitution," which involves identifying the cue and reward of a negative habit and finding a different routine that offers a similar reward. Highlight (yellow) - Page 45 Habit formation is the mechanism by which we can translate our ambitions and goals into concrete and sustainable actions, which in turn allows us to achieve significant achievements over time. Identifying and changing negative habits Highlight (pink) - Page 47 actions. True wisdom comes from understanding, and self- awareness is the key to effectively changing your habits. Highlight (pink) - Page 47 Once negative habits are identified, the next step is to formulate a strategy to change them. Highlight (orange) - Page 47 making. It is a process that involves several levels of your being: cognitive, emotional and behavioral. You must understand the reason for the habit, feel the need to change it, and then apply that understanding and desire to a concrete behavior change. Highlight (blue) - Page 48 don't underestimate the power of the environment and external influences when it comes to changing negative habits. Highlight (blue) - Page 48 if you find yourself in an environment that constantly reinforces your bad habits, it will be an uphill battle. Highlight (yellow) - Page 48 Changing negative habits is a complex process that involves a great deal of self- examination, an effective strategy for gradual change, and a system for ongoing monitoring and adaptation. Through consistent effort, framed by the lens of 1% progress, this act of transformation becomes an integral part of the continuous improvement cycle, enabling you to move towards your goals and aspirations in a more effective and sustainable way. It is an exercise in deep self- awareness and adaptation, a continual refinement of who you are in the process of becoming the person you want to be. micro habits vs. Macro Habits: How to Start Small Highlight (pink) - Page 50 The power of micro habits lies in their simplicity and their ability to be built over time. Highlight (pink) - Page 50 The psychological benefit of starting with micro habits is also considerable. Meeting small goals generates a sense of accomplishment that acts as positive reinforcement, encouraging the adoption of additional habits. Highlight (yellow) - Page 51 Micro habits are flexible enough to be adjusted or transformed if the situation requires it. Highlight (yellow) - Page 51 The inherent flexibility of micro habits makes them more resistant to disruption, which in turn makes them more sustainable in the long run. Highlight (blue) - Page 51 First, choose a micro habit that is aligned with your macro goal. Highlight (blue) - Page 51 meal. Second, make sure the micro habit is measurable and achievable in the short term. Third, integrate this habit into your daily routine in a way that requires little effort to remember and perform. The Importance of Physical Space Highlight (pink) - Page 53 Physical space affects our psychology and emotions in subtle but powerful ways. Highlight (pink) - Page 54 Our environment can reflect and aggravate our emotional and mental state, and vice versa. Highlight (orange) - Page 55 The physical space in which we operate is not a neutral element in our search for improvement and growth. It is an active participant, which affects us and can also be affected by us. Highlight (blue) - Page 55 actions. From the arrangement of the furniture to the lighting and the absence of distractions, every detail counts. Highlight (yellow) - Page 55 Let us not forget, then, that the environment in which we choose to live and work every day can be a mirror that reflects our aspirations, our discipline and our commitment to excellence. How the People Around You Affect Your Progress Highlight (pink) - Page 57 Research in social psychology has shown that human behavior is contagious. Highlight (pink) - Page 57 Therefore, the choice of our "tribe" becomes a crucial element for personal and professional improvement. Highlight (yellow) - Page 57 This influence is not limited to our direct choices or behaviors. It also extends to our core beliefs and perceptions about what is possible. Highlight (blue) - Page 57 People who are part of strong, positive social networks often have more opportunities for growth, as their connections are more willing to share information, offer support, and collaborate on mutually beneficial projects. Highlight (orange) - Page 58 it is imperative to be highly selective with the people we let into our inner circle. This does not mean that we should pursue relationships just for the utilitarian value they may offer; that would be reductionist and ultimately unsatisfying both emotionally and ethically. Rather, it means seeking relationships that are mutually beneficial, where both parties feel enriched and empowered by the interaction. Highlight (blue) - Page 58 least, the quality of our interpersonal relationships also has a ripple effect on other aspects of our lives. A nurturing social environment can improve our mental health, increase our resistance to stress, and raise our self- esteem, all of which contribute indirectly but powerfully to our ability to achieve our goals and continually improve. Highlight (pink) - Page 58 conclusion, the people around you act as forces that can speed up or slow down your progress in life. By carefully choosing who you spend your time and energy with, you not onlyimprovements your opportunities and resources, but alsotoast an environment where your efforts to improve by 1% each day are more likely to be fruitful and sustainable. Designing an enabling environment for change Highlight (orange) - Page 60 The central idea here is to create an external context that, almost autonomously, inclines us towards decisions and actions that favor our long- term goals. Highlight (orange) - Page 60 reduce the burden of always having to make conscious and deliberate decisions to act in our best interest. In other words, the well- designed environment becomes a kind of silent but effective support mechanism for change. Highlight (yellow) - Page 61 the environment can be structured in such a way as to create emotional or cognitive friction against unwanted behaviors. Highlight (pink) - Page 61 In the psychological realm, for example, the layout and aesthetics of space can have a profound impact on our mindset and emotions. A well- lit environment, with colors that evoke calm and focus, can make the process of creative writing or studying more conducive. Natural elements like plants or an outdoor view can also induce a more relaxed state of mind that is receptive to change. In the social realm, the influence of the people with whom we interact cannot be overlooked. As we have discussed in another section of this book, the people around you affect your progress, which means that your social environment is an integral part of the overall environment that you are designing. Highlight (yellow) - Page 61 the enabling environment for change is not a static construct; rather it is dynamic and adapts as our needs, priorities and skill levels change. Highlight (blue) - Page 62 that the environment is like an invisible conductor that guides our actions and decisions, often in ways that we are not fully aware of. By consciously designing an environment that is conducive to the change we want to achieve, we not only make the process easier but also more sustainable. Removing obstacles and distractions from the environment Highlight (yellow) - Page 63 We may have the best intentions and an iron will, but if the environment around us is filled with obstacles and distractions, our progress is likely to be much slower than it could be, if at all. Highlight (blue) - Page 64 From the arrangement of furniture in our home to lighting and sound, every detail can influence our behavior and our decisions Highlight (blue) - Page 64 It is not simply a matter of laziness, but rather a consequence of how the physical environment is not aligned with our goals. Highlight (orange) - Page 64 Turning off unnecessary notifications, setting time limits for certain apps, and decluttering your phone's home screen are effective ways to reduce the digital friction that can keep us from our goals. It's not that social media or apps are inherently bad, but if we don't manage them, they can become obstacles rather than tools. Highlight (pink) - Page 65 if we notice that certain relationships are dragging us down or contributing to habits we want to change, it may be time to set limits or reconsider the time and energy we invest in them. Highlight (yellow) - Page 65 our environment also includes intangible aspects such as culture and social norms, which can have an impact on our decisions and behaviors Highlight (blue) - Page 65 The key to making all this effective is continuous review. As we evolve and change, so do our needs and goals. What worked for us in the past will not necessarily work for us in the future. Highlight (orange) - Page 65 is crucial to not only make these initial adjustments to our environment but also to commit to regularly reviewing and adjusting these elements to ensure they continue to align with our goals. Highlight (pink) - Page 66 removing obstacles and distractions, we are not only clearing the path to our goals, but also exercising a deeper level of self-control and self-discipline. This change in the environment becomes a physical and social manifestation of our commitment to personal improvement and growth, thus enhancing the effectiveness of the 1% that we are trying to apply in our lives. The Myth of Motivation Highlight (yellow) - Page 68 emotional drives and the desire to achieve are important, they are rarely sustainable in the long run by themselves. Emotion is volatile; what we are passionate about today may not have the same effect on us tomorrow, next week, or next year. Highlight (blue) - Page 69 We all face setbacks, disappointments, and the gradual erosion of initial enthusiasm. Therefore, if we rely solely on motivation to keep us on the path to our goals, we are building castles in the air. Highlight (orange) - Page 69 This ignores a fundamental truth: action precedes emotion. Yes, you read right. It is not that you first feel motivated and then act. Often it is the act of committing to a task and seeing it through that creates a sense of accomplishment and therefore more motivation. Action leads to results, which in turn reinforce our desire to act. Highlight (pink) - Page 69 it is just one element in a much more complex system that also includes factors such as environment, discipline, planning, and metric tracking, among other aspects that we have already covered or will cover in other chapters. Highlight (yellow) - Page 70 fundamental principle that should be at the core of any sustained effort: commitment to small daily actions that lead to significant results over time. Highlight (blue) - Page 70 It's time to stop considering motivation as the magic elixir for success and start paying attention to the more tangible and sustainable elements that can be orchestrated and controlled. When we do, we'll realize that true power lies not in the relentless search for an eternal source of inspiration, but in the pragmatic application of tried and true principles that allow us to improve a little each day. The Importance of Long-Term Commitment Highlight (orange) - Page 71 It's what makes it possible for small incremental changes, those 1% gains, to eventually turn into huge results Highlight (pink) - Page 71 Long-term commitment is a kind of pact that you make with yourself. This pact is an implicit contract that you establish, based on a clear vision and well-defined objectives Highlight (pink) - Page 71 The long-term commitment is the equivalent of a lifetime's marriage, rather than a summer idyll. Highlight (yellow) - Page 72 Without a long-term commitment, your trajectory will be more like a rudderless ship floating at random, rather than following a predefined course to a specific destination. You could float in calm waters for a while, enjoying the serenity of the moment, but sooner or later you will find yourself in troubled waters, with no clear strategy for navigating through them. Ultimately, you will find yourself trapped in an endless cycle of ups and downs, unable to make sustained progress in any direction. Highlight (blue) - Page 72 long-term commitment allows you to focus on the process, instead of obsessing over the results. Highlight (blue) - Page 73 opportunity to experiment, learn, and adapt. Highlight (orange) - Page 73 It requires a great deal of self-discipline Highlight (pink) - Page 73 This is the power of long-term commitment, the ability to turn resistance into a resource, to turn challenges into opportunities, and to make each new day a step in the direction of your goals and dreams. Highlight (yellow) - Page 73 It's a life strategy, a conscious choice you make every day to stay focused, to keep pushing yourself even when the going gets tough, and to never stop believing that you can and will achieve your goals, no matter how lofty or unattainable. they may seem at first. After all, the magnitude of the change is not measured in the intensity of the initial effort, but in the sustainability of the effort over time. And that's the secret of the 1%: small, sustained actions that, thanks to the power of long-term commitment, transform into surprisingly big results. Strategies to Maintain Consistency Highlight (blue) - Page 74 you don't rely too much on motivation, but rather on systems that make it easier for you to accomplish the tasks you have in mind. Highlight (blue) - Page 75 Maintaining consistency requires a long-term commitment. Commitment goes beyond momentary emotions or moods. Highlight (orange) - Page 75 Having a robust and well structured system for what you are trying to achieve is crucial. A system is a set of practices, routines, and rules that keep you on track, even when things aren't going well Highlight (orange) - Page 75 Reminders and alarms act as an early warning system that keeps you on the line. Highlight (orange) - Page 75 Consistency can also be fostered through a support group. Having people who share your goals, or at least understand the importance of what you're trying to achieve, can offer significant encouragement. Highlight (orange) - Page 76 it is crucial that you review andsettings your focus regularly. This review process allows you to identify what is working and what is not, so that you can make any necessary adjustments. C Highlight (orange) - Page 76 plateaus and setbacks are part of the continuous improvement process. They are not indicators of failure; rather, they are signs that you need to reevaluate and adjust your approach. Those tough times are also when your long-term commitment is tested. Highlight (pink) - Page 76 Maintaining consistency is a complex task that goes beyond the simple repetition of actions. It requires a long-term commitment, a robust system, and a continuous improvement mindset. By applying strategies like establishing a system, using reminders and alarms, having a support group, and being willing to review and adjust, you can maintain consistency in any area of ​​your life. This is the path to harnessing the power of the 1%, where small actions performed consistently willprovide great results over time.

GRATITUDE

 🌅 Morning Reflection 

 How do you feel? 
 I am feeling very grateful and I am looking forward to complete my goals in due time

 Why do you feel this way? 
 Cause it's my feeling only which motivated me each and every time one of the powerful thing which I had is my willingness 

 What will you do today? 
 I am gonna complete my tasks rot mot emi Photosynthesis Respiration 

 What are you looking forward to? 
 For being better me each time never to doubt self 🤝 Being Mindful of Others 

 How do I make others feel?
 Well I actually don't know cause I won't be able to understand what others is truly feeling for me now adays people are like day and night means having two faces so I don't know and I don't even care what others are thinking about me

 Have I done an act of kindness?
 Yes I did whenever I get the chance to do something good I used to do it

 What can I do better tomorrow? 
 Improving myself 🤔 

Self-Reflection 

 How am I feeling right now? 
In a good mood

 What makes me hopeful? 
 My goals and my personality 😝 Yeah I am very hopeful person What makes me worried? Like nothing ever worries me 

 What can I accept that I cannot change?
 I have accepted everything 😌 so there is nothing to regret about 

 ✅ To-Do List 

 What tasks are ahead of me?
 Each day goals and this will to great success one day

 What are the priorities? 
 Better myself doing things on time no procrastination Like nothing ever worries me

 What can I accept that I cannot change? 
 I have accepted everything 😌 so there is nothing to regret about 

Whom to reach out?
  My inner self cause none can teach me what I can teach myself AND OF COURSE KRISHNA CAUSE HE IS MY EVERYTHING 😌😌

 What would make this day successful? 
 Of course without any procrastination completing the tasks given to me by me

 🙏 Gratitude Entry List

 three things that you are grateful for:Each and everything I have In my life whatever the moments I have That I am here and writing all this things I am alive 😂 🤗

 Instant Cheer-Up What are you grateful for? That I am me not willing to be someone else

 What did you enjoy today? Write now I have just started the day so I can't tell it

 What are you planning for the future? Lots of planning in my head and willing to apply everything in future

 What do people like about you? How would I know there are lots of fake people I don't even care what they really think about me their point of views are not gonna make any changes in my perception 😌 Letting Go of Worries

 What worries you? I don't worry alot yeah but sometimes during case of love I do  cause that's  where only I am NOT representing rather there is another one who should understand what they should do

 How would an outsider see it? Maybe normal thing 

 What can be the positive outcome? I don't think there would be any positive outcome 


 💡 Idea What is your idea? How does it work? What are the next steps? 😴 Brain Dump What do you need to do tomorrow? Alots of things What do you need to do this week? What does worry you? Yeah I forgot that sometimes procrastination do worry me 😅 What are you looking forward to? #self reflection

Saturday, August 19, 2023

Apologies

SORRY GUYS I HAVEN'T posted anything since last blog. Actually I was lil busy learning new things and exam preparation... 😶🌫️ I Only get time during eve but unable to write it cause there is something which i need to sort out first but very soon i will post something which actually happening with me 😅 IT'S something crazy and i would love to share it with you guys seriously but first I need to observe it properly😝. IT MAY PUBLISH THIS WEEK UNTILL THEN TAKE CARE OF YOURSELF AND YOUR LOVED ONES

Tuesday, August 8, 2023

A TRUE STORY

How are you?
I think you are doing well
I was calling you but no one is receiving 
Well my wp Is being deleted Don't think I have blocked you I will again open it on 7 may hope you will understand the situation 
Call me when u are free not at night as I Don't sleep with my phone, mommy keeps it and today i was calling you cause I came to college 
But u don't receive  my calls 🙂🙃 
I was thinking that I will not call u or text u before exam but I can't do it u know that very well but now I am going to home and mimmi will take my phone I have no choice 🙃🙃 
I don't know what you are thinking 💭  but I wanna make it clear Don't come with ulta fulta thoughts that I Don't love you or leaving u or ditching u no never 
try to understand me 🥲🥲
U know very well even more then me ❤ 
Well I am missing you every day 🙃🙃 I know that u can live without me but I can't 🥲 it's hard really till now I won't be able to live without you 
I know that u don't like long paragraph but what can I do I am helpless 😣 I want u badly let's meet one day whenever u want I will be there for you no matter where life takes me to but my heart will always belongs to you cause.... u know that very well 😚😚😚 And HAPPY VALENTINES DAY MY LOVE 
I HAD NOT TEXT OR CALL U BECAUSE NOW MY PHONE DOESN'T BELONGS TO ME TILL 7 MAY 
I WISH I can SNATCH U FROM EVERYONE AND WILL KEEP U CAUSE U ARE ONLY MINE AND I AM ONLY YOURS I KNOW U DON'T WANT TO BUT I WANT IT REALLY BAD NO MATTER WHAT HAPPENS I WILL WHETHER U WANT OR NOT I  PROMISE DEAR
 U LOVED A GIRL WHO IS VERY STUBBORN AND SHE WILL DO WHATEVER SHE HAD TOLD U OR WHATEVER IS PRESENT IN HER MIND JUST WAIT FOR THAT DAY I DON'T KNOW WHERE WE WILL BE then
 BUT BELIEVE ME NO MATTER WHERE U WILL, I WILL FIND YOU AND WILL TAKE YOU TO MY DREAM WORLD WHATEVER I HAS MENTIONED TO U
 I LOVE YOU I LOVE YOUR SMILE I LOVE YOUR VOICE I LOVE EVERYTHING ABOUT YOU WHETHER IT'S BAD OR GOOD U ARE ALL MINE I DON'T KNOW WHETHER U WILL LIKE ME OR NOT AFTER MEETING BUT ALL I KNOW IS THAT EVEN IF U DON'T I AM NOT GOING TO LEAVE U TILL DEATH OR EVEN AFTER DEATH ☠  I AM GOING TO HAUNT YOU 😁 MY DEAR LOVE 😍 
WAIT FOR THAT DAY BABY 
LOVE YOU BABY LOVE YOU SO MUCH 
Dedicating to you my love 😍 



SOMETIMES PEOPLE WHO ARE REALLY IMPORTANT TO YOU DOESN'T BELONG TO YOU
 ALL YOU NEED IS TO FORGIVE YOURSELF FOR LOVING SOMEONE THAT DON'T DESERVE YOUR LOVE TIME SACRIFICE
HAVE PATIENCE ONE DAY YOU WILL FIND YOUR TRUE LOVE FOR SURE
UNTIL THEN LOVE YOURSELF THE MOST THAT PEOPLE WHO ARE WATCHING YOU OR OBSERVING YOU  WILL ENVY YOU ☺☺☺ 


The ABOVE CONTEXT IS FROM A CHAT OF MY CLOSEST FRIENDS WHO LOVED A WRONG PERSON WASTED HER 3 YEARS JUST FOR HIM ‼ 

SOMETIMES I FEEL LIKE YEAH LOVE IS REALLY BLIND IT DOESN'T KNOW WHAT IS RIGHT OR WRONG FOR YOU  EVEN IF YOUR BRAIN KNOWS THAT SOMETHING IS WRONG BUT YOUR HEART WILL NEVER UNDERSTAND IT. 😐😐



LET'S FORGET ABOUT PAST AND EMBRACE THE FUTURE BY WORKING TODAY⁏)

Friday, August 4, 2023

ABOUT LIFE ABOUT LOVE ABOUT ME

WHAT EXACTLY LOVE IS ?...


Well as you all know I use to say that everyone has different opinions on a topic some will like it some will not so you should not scared about what other people thinks about all u need is to say things that you really wanna share.So toady I Bandana wanna share what exactly love is MAYBE someone get offended maybe some will love it without wasting our time let's jump to the topic.

LOVE LOVE LOVE  WHAT is this love ~ A strong feeling about someone or something to protect it to endure things together ❤ not to leave each other at any cost EVEN when time is worst
But sometime it's better to leave each other for their shake for our shake how !! ~ sometime Relationship gets toxic see FOR ME BOTH LOVE AND RELATIONSHIP IS TWO DIFFERENT THING one should not mixed up things. Some might think what the heck she is even talking about Right  what I am saying is you will understand when u will read further 
    Suppose you are a child and you have a dog you two are growing up together and a bond is forming the bond of love so are you guys in relation??.... No right it's a bond which is getting stronger DAY By day DO u wanna lose it ?? No but you are not in a relation you two belongs to different species 😉  okay 
    Now suppose you(boy) and your neighbor's child(girl) are growing up together there would be two case 1. You two might fall for each other 
2. You two might end up as bro sis relation 
This two cases has two type of relation 
In our life we play role of different relation and there is an attachment working which leads to love don't u love your father mother sis bro friend dog girl boy etc etc ..
But In this all you will find someone special whom you will fall madly in love a relation which is beyond anything cause if you are in love with a person then there is a possibility of forgetting everything like you will not care about your own feelings, their feelings will be your priority your world will revolve around them 
Actually it's not the point thou but still. YOU WILL FIND A PERSON WITH WHOM You wanna spend your whole life. A person with whom you wanna start a Sweet little family. SOMETIMES THINGS GET WORSE BUT STILL WANT TO WORK ON THE SITUATION CAUSE YOU DON'T WANNA LOSE THAT PERSON AT ANYCOST There are people who fall for the wrong person and thinks that everyone is like them But no!!!! There are alots of people in this world how can you end up thinking that and which is based on a single person who doesn't care about your feelings. I personally believe that they are immature cause a mature person knows the value of time love relation and Immature doesn't they don't value their own time so what else I can say to them. There are situation when things get worse of course there would be cause no one in this world is perfect. Everyone has to work on them to make things better. So in a relation both need to work need to share their feelings, there are boundaries too but this doesn't means that they are hiding something from you 😐 One should convey their feelings not to hide from each other like about what they feel about life what they are expecting what they like what they dislike about their goals , what they really feels about relation and love and family. Communication is the pillar of Relationship and love that's the most easiest way to express your feelings to the people who are really important to you But some believe that it's useless:( I really don't understand why, If you won't share about how you feel how can other will understand it LIKE HOW?? Are they psychologist who will understand what's going on your mind EVEN they also need to know things about you then only they would understand And You telling thinks to God also that I want this I want that DON'T YOU??? Just think about that you are communicating will God also who knows everything but still You do it SO HOW DO YOU REALLY THINK THAT COMMUNICATION IS NOT IMPORTANT IF PILLAR OF THE BUILDING IS BRITTLE OR FEEBLE THEN HOW CAN YOU REALLY MAKE THAT BUILDING EVEN IT'S MADE THERE ARE CHANCES OF BREAKING DOWN YOU WILL DEFINITELY SEE CRACKS IN IT and when earthquake will happen it will broke down into pieces SO If you don't like them tell them clearly it's better for both of you physically mentally emotionally. Don't play with anyone's feelings and time MAYBE things are not important to you But important to them Be mature and brave enough to face the obstacles which life throws to you EVERY CHAPTER IN YOUR LIFE WILL TEACH YOU SOMETHING IT'S BETTER TO WRITE THEM DOWN,SEEING THOSE TWICE IN A WEEK AND NOT TO MAKE THE SAME MISTAKES AGAIN PEOPLES ARE MEANT TO MAKE MISTAKES BUT NOT REPEATING SAME MISTAKES EVERY TIME BE TRUE TO YOURSELF AND EVERYTHING WILL BE EASY 😌😌😌




best song for me rn

  I was a kid looking for love, full of hope inside But time was never kind to me, my heart grew cold as ice All out of luck, thought I was ...