Well as you all know I use to say that everyone has different opinions on a topic some will like it some will not so you should not scared about what other people thinks about all u need is to say things that you really wanna share.So toady I Bandana wanna share what exactly love is MAYBE someone get offended maybe some will love it without wasting our time let's jump to the topic.
LOVE LOVE LOVE WHAT is this love ~ A strong feeling about someone or something to protect it to endure things together β€ not to leave each other at any cost EVEN when time is worst
But sometime it's better to leave each other for their shake for our shake how !! ~ sometime Relationship gets toxic see FOR ME BOTH LOVE AND RELATIONSHIP IS TWO DIFFERENT THING one should not mixed up things.
Some might think what the heck she is even talking about Right what I am saying is you will understand when u will read further
Suppose you are a child and you have a dog you two are growing up together and a bond is forming the bond of love so are you guys in relation??.... No right it's a bond which is getting stronger DAY By day DO u wanna lose it ?? No but you are not in a relation you two belongs to different species π okay
Now suppose you(boy) and your neighbor's child(girl) are growing up together there would be two case 1. You two might fall for each other
2. You two might end up as bro sis relation
This two cases has two type of relation
In our life we play role of different relation and there is an attachment working which leads to love don't u love your father mother sis bro friend dog girl boy etc etc ..
But In this all you will find someone special whom you will fall madly in love a relation which is beyond anything cause if you are in love with a person then there is a possibility of forgetting everything like you will not care about your own feelings, their feelings will be your priority your world will revolve around them
Actually it's not the point thou but still.
YOU WILL FIND A PERSON WITH WHOM You wanna spend your whole life. A person with whom you wanna start a Sweet little family.
SOMETIMES THINGS GET WORSE BUT STILL WANT TO WORK ON THE SITUATION CAUSE YOU DON'T WANNA LOSE THAT PERSON AT ANYCOST
There are people who fall for the wrong person and thinks that everyone is like them But no!!!!
There are alots of people in this world how can you end up thinking that and which is based on a single person who doesn't care about your feelings. I personally believe that they are immature cause a mature person knows the value of time love relation and Immature doesn't they don't value their own time so what else I can say to them.
There are situation when things get worse of course there would be cause no one in this world is perfect. Everyone has to work on them to make things better. So in a relation both need to work need to share their feelings, there are boundaries too but this doesn't means that they are hiding something from you π
One should convey their feelings not to hide from each other like about what they feel about life what they are expecting what they like what they dislike about their goals , what they really feels about relation and love and family.
Communication is the pillar of Relationship and love that's the most easiest way to express your feelings to the people who are really important to you
But some believe that it's useless:( I really don't understand why, If you won't share about how you feel how can other will understand it LIKE HOW?? Are they psychologist who will understand what's going on your mind EVEN they also need to know things about you then only they would understand
And You telling thinks to God also that I want this I want that DON'T YOU??? Just think about that you are communicating will God also who knows everything but still You do it
SO HOW DO YOU REALLY THINK THAT COMMUNICATION IS NOT IMPORTANT
IF PILLAR OF THE BUILDING IS BRITTLE OR FEEBLE THEN HOW CAN YOU REALLY MAKE THAT BUILDING EVEN IT'S MADE THERE ARE CHANCES OF BREAKING DOWN YOU WILL DEFINITELY SEE CRACKS IN IT and when earthquake will happen it will broke down into pieces
SO If you don't like them tell them clearly it's better for both of you physically mentally emotionally. Don't play with anyone's feelings and time MAYBE things are not important to you But important to them
Be mature and brave enough to face the obstacles which life throws to you
EVERY CHAPTER IN YOUR LIFE WILL TEACH YOU SOMETHING IT'S BETTER TO WRITE THEM DOWN,SEEING THOSE TWICE IN A WEEK AND NOT TO MAKE THE SAME MISTAKES AGAIN
PEOPLES ARE MEANT TO MAKE MISTAKES BUT NOT REPEATING SAME MISTAKES EVERY TIME
BE TRUE TO YOURSELF AND EVERYTHING WILL BE EASY πππ
Hayee someone special
ReplyDeleteHi mam, well explained π and thanks for sharing this, and I believe it helped me too, like so many other readers.
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