Apologies

SORRY GUYS I HAVEN'T posted anything since last blog. Actually I was lil busy learning new things and exam preparation... 😶🌫️ I Only get time during eve but unable to write it cause there is something which i need to sort out first but very soon i will post something which actually happening with me 😅 IT'S something crazy and i would love to share it with you guys seriously but first I need to observe it properly😝. IT MAY PUBLISH THIS WEEK UNTILL THEN TAKE CARE OF YOURSELF AND YOUR LOVED ONES

A TRUE STORY

How are you?

I think you are doing well

I was calling you but no one is receiving 

Well my wp Is being deleted Don't think I have blocked you I will again open it on 7 may hope you will understand the situation 

Call me when u are free not at night as I Don't sleep with my phone, mommy keeps it and today i was calling you cause I came to college 

But u don't receive  my calls  

I was thinking that I will not call u or text u before exam but I can't do it u know that very well but now I am going to home and mimmi will take my phone I have no choice  

I don't know what you are thinking   but I wanna make it clear Don't come with ulta fulta thoughts that I Don't love you or leaving u or ditching u no never 

try to understand me 

U know very well even more then me  

Well I am missing you every day  I know that u can live without me but I can't  it's hard really till now I won't be able to live without you 

I know that u don't like long paragraph but what can I do I am helpless  I want u badly let's meet one day whenever u want I will be there for you no matter where life takes me to but my heart will always belongs to you cause.... u know that very well  And HAPPY VALENTINES DAY MY LOVE 

I HAD NOT TEXT OR CALL U BECAUSE NOW MY PHONE DOESN'T BELONGS TO ME TILL 7 MAY 

I WISH I can SNATCH U FROM EVERYONE AND WILL KEEP U CAUSE U ARE ONLY MINE AND I AM ONLY YOURS I KNOW U DON'T WANT TO BUT I WANT IT REALLY BAD NO MATTER WHAT HAPPENS I WILL WHETHER U WANT OR NOT I  PROMISE DEAR

 U LOVED A GIRL WHO IS VERY STUBBORN AND SHE WILL DO WHATEVER SHE HAD TOLD U OR WHATEVER IS PRESENT IN HER MIND JUST WAIT FOR THAT DAY I DON'T KNOW WHERE WE WILL BE then

 BUT BELIEVE ME NO MATTER WHERE U WILL, I WILL FIND YOU AND WILL TAKE YOU TO MY DREAM WORLD WHATEVER I HAS MENTIONED TO U

 I LOVE YOU I LOVE YOUR SMILE I LOVE YOUR VOICE I LOVE EVERYTHING ABOUT YOU WHETHER IT'S BAD OR GOOD U ARE ALL MINE I DON'T KNOW WHETHER U WILL LIKE ME OR NOT AFTER MEETING BUT ALL I KNOW IS THAT EVEN IF U DON'T I AM NOT GOING TO LEAVE U TILL DEATH OR EVEN AFTER DEATH   I AM GOING TO HAUNT YOU  MY DEAR LOVE  

WAIT FOR THAT DAY BABY 

LOVE YOU BABY LOVE YOU SO MUCH 

Dedicating to you my love  

https://open.spotify.com/track/09FfppwkzTccGQFWcglxGD?si=i7KOe_eAS6inGMgZIiAdDw%0A for you 

SOMETIMES PEOPLE WHO ARE REALLY IMPORTANT TO YOU DOESN'T BELONG TO YOU

 ALL YOU NEED IS TO FORGIVE YOURSELF FOR LOVING SOMEONE THAT DON'T DESERVE YOUR LOVE TIME SACRIFICE

HAVE PATIENCE ONE DAY YOU WILL FIND YOUR TRUE LOVE FOR SURE

UNTIL THEN LOVE YOURSELF THE MOST THAT PEOPLE WHO ARE WATCHING YOU OR OBSERVING YOU  WILL ENVY YOU ☺☺☺ 

The ABOVE CONTEXT IS FROM A CHAT OF MY CLOSEST FRIENDS WHO LOVED A WRONG PERSON WASTED HER 3 YEARS JUST FOR HIM ‼ 

SOMETIMES I FEEL LIKE YEAH LOVE IS REALLY BLIND IT DOESN'T KNOW WHAT IS RIGHT OR WRONG FOR YOU  EVEN IF YOUR BRAIN KNOWS THAT SOMETHING IS WRONG BUT YOUR HEART WILL NEVER UNDERSTAND IT. 😐😐

LET'S FORGET ABOUT PAST AND EMBRACE THE FUTURE BY WORKING TODAY⁏)

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ABOUT LIFE ABOUT LOVE ABOUT ME

WHAT EXACTLY LOVE IS ?...

Well as you all know I use to say that everyone has different opinions on a topic some will like it some will not so you should not scared about what other people thinks about all u need is to say things that you really wanna share.So toady I Bandana wanna share what exactly love is MAYBE someone get offended maybe some will love it without wasting our time let's jump to the topic.

LOVE LOVE LOVE  WHAT is this love ~ A strong feeling about someone or something to protect it to endure things together ❤ not to leave each other at any cost EVEN when time is worst

But sometime it's better to leave each other for their shake for our shake how !! ~ sometime Relationship gets toxic see FOR ME BOTH LOVE AND RELATIONSHIP IS TWO DIFFERENT THING one should not mixed up things. Some might think what the heck she is even talking about Right  what I am saying is you will understand when u will read further 

    Suppose you are a child and you have a dog you two are growing up together and a bond is forming the bond of love so are you guys in relation??.... No right it's a bond which is getting stronger DAY By day DO u wanna lose it ?? No but you are not in a relation you two belongs to different species 😉  okay 

    Now suppose you(boy) and your neighbor's child(girl) are growing up together there would be two case 1. You two might fall for each other 

2. You two might end up as bro sis relation 

This two cases has two type of relation 

In our life we play role of different relation and there is an attachment working which leads to love don't u love your father mother sis bro friend dog girl boy etc etc ..

But In this all you will find someone special whom you will fall madly in love a relation which is beyond anything cause if you are in love with a person then there is a possibility of forgetting everything like you will not care about your own feelings, their feelings will be your priority your world will revolve around them 

Actually it's not the point thou but still. YOU WILL FIND A PERSON WITH WHOM You wanna spend your whole life. A person with whom you wanna start a Sweet little family. SOMETIMES THINGS GET WORSE BUT STILL WANT TO WORK ON THE SITUATION CAUSE YOU DON'T WANNA LOSE THAT PERSON AT ANYCOST There are people who fall for the wrong person and thinks that everyone is like them But no!!!! There are alots of people in this world how can you end up thinking that and which is based on a single person who doesn't care about your feelings. I personally believe that they are immature cause a mature person knows the value of time love relation and Immature doesn't they don't value their own time so what else I can say to them. There are situation when things get worse of course there would be cause no one in this world is perfect. Everyone has to work on them to make things better. So in a relation both need to work need to share their feelings, there are boundaries too but this doesn't means that they are hiding something from you 😐 One should convey their feelings not to hide from each other like about what they feel about life what they are expecting what they like what they dislike about their goals , what they really feels about relation and love and family. Communication is the pillar of Relationship and love that's the most easiest way to express your feelings to the people who are really important to you But some believe that it's useless:( I really don't understand why, If you won't share about how you feel how can other will understand it LIKE HOW?? Are they psychologist who will understand what's going on your mind EVEN they also need to know things about you then only they would understand And You telling thinks to God also that I want this I want that DON'T YOU??? Just think about that you are communicating will God also who knows everything but still You do it SO HOW DO YOU REALLY THINK THAT COMMUNICATION IS NOT IMPORTANT IF PILLAR OF THE BUILDING IS BRITTLE OR FEEBLE THEN HOW CAN YOU REALLY MAKE THAT BUILDING EVEN IT'S MADE THERE ARE CHANCES OF BREAKING DOWN YOU WILL DEFINITELY SEE CRACKS IN IT and when earthquake will happen it will broke down into pieces SO If you don't like them tell them clearly it's better for both of you physically mentally emotionally. Don't play with anyone's feelings and time MAYBE things are not important to you But important to them Be mature and brave enough to face the obstacles which life throws to you EVERY CHAPTER IN YOUR LIFE WILL TEACH YOU SOMETHING IT'S BETTER TO WRITE THEM DOWN,SEEING THOSE TWICE IN A WEEK AND NOT TO MAKE THE SAME MISTAKES AGAIN PEOPLES ARE MEANT TO MAKE MISTAKES BUT NOT REPEATING SAME MISTAKES EVERY TIME BE TRUE TO YOURSELF AND EVERYTHING WILL BE EASY 😌😌😌

ROLE OF GOALS IN OUR LIFE

WHAT YOU ALL THINK ABOUT GOALS ?WHAT ROLE IT'S PLAY IN OUR DAY TO DAY LIFE ?

SEE GUYS IN OUR WORLD THERE ARE BILLIONS OF PEOPLE AND THESE PEOPLE HAVE MILLIONS OF THOUGHTS SO MY POINT IS THAT WE ALL HAVE DIFFERENT VIEWS FOR EVERY TOPIC. MAYBE MY POINT OF VIEW IS NOT INCLUDED IN YOURS BUT YOU CAN'T TELL THAT THIS IS WRONG BECAUSE I THINK EVERY PERSON HAS RIGHT TO HAVE DIFFERENT VIEWS.

ONE SHOULD NOT CRITICIZE OTHER PERSON BECAUSE NONE KNOWS WHAT HE OR SHE IS SUFFERING FOR. LIKE A GOD IN HINDUISM THERE ARE ALOTS OF GODS IN CHRISTIANITY THERE IS JESUS FOR MUSLIMS THEY HAVE ALLAH LIKE AND MANY MORE RELIGION HAVE DIFFERENT GODS. PEOPLE WILL FOLLOW THAT GOD ACCORDING TO THEIR RELIGION AND THEY SHOULD NOT OPPOSE OTHER RELIGION CAUSE GOD IS PRESENT BUT HE HAS DIFFERENT PATHS AND FORMS. LET'S COME TO OUR POINT OF DISCUSSION THAT'S ABOUT GOALS.

       ●●  WHAT IS GOAL..?AND IT'S IMPORTANCE IN ONCES LIFE ??

 ACC. TO DICTIONARY IT'S "THE OBJECT OF A PERSON'S AMBITION OR EFFORT;AN AIM OR DESIRED RESULT. "

BUT FOR ME GOAL IS THAT WHICH WILL MAKE ME BETTER. WHENEVER I WILL REMEMBER WHAT MY GOAL IS IT WILL GIVE ME ENERGY. IT WILL MAKE ME BETTER. IT WILL REALIZE ME NOT TO WASTE MY TIME BECAUSE TIME IS LIMITED. FOR EVERYTHING TIME IS THE MOST IMPORTANT FACTOR NONE SHOULD WASTE TIME OTHERWISE TIME WILL MAKE YOU A USELESS PERSON SO YOU SHOULD KNOW THE VALUEE OF TIME AND YOUR GOAL WILL BE YOUR HELPER TO MAINTAIN TIME. WHEN U WILL FEEL DOWN LIKE 'I CAN'T DO ANYTHING I AM A USELESS PERSON' DURING THIS TIME GOAL WILL HELP YOU AFTER REMEMBERING OF YOUR GOAL YOU WILL AGAIN FEEL LIKE I WILL PROOF EVERYONE AND MOST IMPORTANTLY MYSELF WHICH DOUBTED ME WRONG. GOAL WILL MOTIVATE YOU AND THUS WILL HELP YOU TO KEEP IN TRACK. EVEN IF YOU FAIL YOU CAN TELL YOURSELF THAT I HAD TRIED ATLEAST AND THEN START AGAIN WITH NEW IDEAS AND ENERGY. YOU KNOW WHO LAUGH MORE WHEN YOU FAIL, IT'S THE PERSON IN SIDE YOU WHO USE TO TOLD YOU THAT WHAT WILL HAPPEN BY DOING THIS AND WHEN PEOPLE LAUGH ON THAT TIME YOUR TRUE SELF WHICH HAD DONE THIS HARD TO SUCCEED BUT FOR SOME REASON YOU CAN'T PASS IT. SO WHAT IF YOU CAN'T PASS FOR THE 1ST TIME LET'S DO IT AGAIN AND AGAIN UNTILK YOU REACH YOUR GOAL. YOU KNOW WHAT GOAL IS SOMETHING WHICH WILL NEVER FADE AWAY NO MATTER HOW MANY TIME YOU FAIL IT'S SOMETHING WHICH WILL GIVE YOU NEW DIFFERENT IDEAS AND ENERGY TO REACH IT, IT MIGHT TAKE SOME TIMES BUT YOU HAVE TO REACH IT CAUSE IT'S YOUR GOAL. YOU SHOULD NOT THINK ABOUT OTHER OR WHAT OTHERS ARE TELLINGS BECAUSE THEY DON'T WANT YOU TO SEE YOU HAPPY AFTER REACHING YOUR PRECIOUSREA GOAL BUT THE PERSON WHO WILL MOTIVATE YOU AND WILL STICK TO YOU NO MATTER HOW MAY TIMES YOU FAIL OR HOW MUCH TIME IT TAKES WILL BE THE TRUE ONE WANTS GOODS FOR YOU, NEVER LOSE THIS PERSON NO MATTER WHAT HAPPENS. SOMETIME LIFE CAUSE DIFFERENT DIFFICULT PATH LIKE SEPARATION FROM THE PERSON YOU LOVE THE MOST. IF THE PERSON REALLY LOVES YOU WILL WAIT FOR YOU AND YOU SHOULD ALSO MOTIVATE HER OR HIM TO REACH THEIR LIFE GOAL AND AFTER REACHING EACH OTHERS GOALS YOU TWO SHOULD NEED TO BECAME ONE. TRUE LOVE SUCCEED. THERE ARE TIMES WHEN YOU REALIZE THAT IT'S TOO LATE TO REACH FOR THE OTHER PERSON DURING THAT TIME YOU SHOULD NOT BE SAD RATHER BE HAPPY FOR THE OTHER ONE MAYBE SHE WASN'T THE ONE FOR YOU WISH FOR HER HAPPINESS AND WAIT FOR YOUR TRUE BETTER HALF. SOMETIME WE GOT CHEATED FROM OTHER PERSON WE LOVED THE MOST ON THAT TIME WE USED TO DEPEESSED NOTHING SEEMS TO BE RIGHT WORLD BECAME DULL AND LIFELESS DURING THAT TIME YOUR GOAL WILL REALIZE YOU THAT NOTHING IS OVER THERE IS SOME IMPORTANT THINGS WHICH ARE NOT DONE YET SO AFTER REALIZING IT YOU WILL START AGAIN WITH HAPPINESS AND ENERGY. YOU WILL FIND THE PERSON WHO IS MADE ONLY FOR YOU AND AFTER FINDING THAT PERSON YOU SHOULD NOT LET HER/HIM GO AWAY FROM YOU. FOR SOME PERSON REACHING THE PERSON YOU LOVE IS THE GOAL FOR THEM I WOULD LIKE TO TELL THAT WHAT IF THAT PERSON DON'T LOVE YOU BUT LOVE SOMEONE ELSE IN THIS CASE YOU SHOULD WISE FOR THEIR HAPPINESS IT WILL GIVE YOU PEACE AND JOY OTHERWISE YOU WILL GO TO DEPRESSION OR IF YOU WANT HIM OR HER WAIT FOR RIGHT TIME AND DON'T FORCE HIM/HER, IF YOUR LOVE IS TRUE THEN IT WILL REACH ONE DAY TO HER/HIM UNTILL THAT WAIT AND WORK FOR YOURSELF BUILT YOURSELF SO THAT AFTER REACHING YOU SHE/HE CAN'T LEAVE YOU. MAKE YOURSELF BETTER EVERYDAY SO THAT YOUR OTHER SOULMATE WILL LOVE YOU MORE THAN YOURSELF. SO 1ST OF ALL WORK WHICH WILL MAKE YOU BETTER EVERYDAY AND ULTIMATELY YOUR WILL LOVE YOURSELF AND OTHER PERSON WILL LOVE YOU TOO. AND THERE ARE ALOTS OF THINK YOU WILL UNDERSTAND TIME TO TIME CAUSE TIME IS THE BEST TEACHER OF LIFE. ALL YOU NEED IS TO OPENUP YOUR ALL SENSES AND REALIZE EACH AND EVERYTHING MINUTELY. 

                 WE ALL HAVE ONE LIFE SO WE NEED TO LIVE HAPPILY AND MAKE OTHERS HAPPY (AND THERE ARE SOME PERSON WHO WILL JEALOUS OF YOU FOR THEM MAKE THEM MORE  JEALOUS BY ACHIEVING YOUR GOALS AND ALWAYS BE HAPPY, AND THERE ARE DOUBLE FACE PEOPLE FOR THOSE YOU NEED TO BE QUIT INTELLIGENT SO THAT YOUR FRIEND CIRCLE DON'T CONTAIN THEM.) THERE ARE QUOTES ABOUT GOAL THAT YOU NEED TO AIM HIGH , WELL WHAT EXACTLY HIGH AIM MEANS !!

FOR ME IT'S SOMETIME WHICH IS DIFFICULT BUT YOU CAN DO THAT IF YOU CONCENTRATE AND GIVE TIME TO IT, WHICH IS DIFFERENT FROM OTHER LIKE TO BE HAPPY ALL TIME IT'S NOT TO WEAR A FAKE HAPPY SMILE FACE (BEING SAD FROM INSIDE BUT HAPPY FROM OUTSIDE) YOU NEED TO BE TRUE TO YOURSELF IF YOU ARE SAD THEN BE SAD AND REMOVE THE SADNESS AND BECOME HAPPY, WHY ALL THIS SADNESS DEPRESSION AND TENSION IF YOU HAVE ONLY ONE LIFE TO SPEND. SPEND IT BY BEING HAPPY AND TRUE TO YOURSELF REACHING GOALS HELPING OTHER SPREADING HAPPINESS IT'S MY MOTTO OF LIFE. SIMPLE THINGS AND THINKING WILL MAKE YOU HAPPY ACTUALLY THEY ARE THE TRUE CAUSE TO HAPPINESS BUT WE USE TO LIKE MAKE THINGS AND THINKING COMPLICATED WHICH MAKES ALSO OUR LIFE COMPLICATED AND SADLY. SO ALL YOU NEED IS TO DECIDE AND TAKING ACTIONS CAUSE ALL THE LINES (HEART LINE FATE LINE LIFELINE LOVE LINE) IS PRESENT IN OUR OWN HAND. SO GO AND CONQUER OWNS HAPPINESS AND SPREAD HAPPINESS TOO. AND ALWAYS REMEMBER TOMORROW IS ANOTHER DAY AND IS A SECOND CHANCE.SO DON'T WASTE IT AND KEEPING GOING YOU WILL REACH YOUR GOAL SOON.

THE MOST IMPORTANT THING IS THAT GOAL IS NOT THE HAPPINESS THE WAY YOU ARE GOING IS THE HAPPINESS REACHING GOAL IS SATISFACTION.

ACCORDING TO MAXIME LAGACÈ IT'S NOT THE GOAL THAT WILL MAKE YOU SUCCESSFUL BUT IT'S WHAT YOU DO DAILY.

 WHAT YOU GET BY ACHIEVING YOUR GOALS IS NOT AS IMPORTANT AS WHAT YOU BECOME BY ACHIEVING IT ~HENRY DAVID THOREAU.

Loving myself

 I am enjoying my life what about you 

A small intro.

 Hi guys, 

       It's Bandana  here. I want to help you by providing answers of life, Love and me 

Hope you all will like it and support it.

       Thanking you 

                                           Yours friend 

                                          Bandana Mandal.